Halloween debacle…..
27 10 2007Well it’s been a while since I wrote and I’m sorry I’ve been a little busy but this morning I need to vent. I’m suppose to go to a party tonight for two of my friends and normally I would be pretty excited everyone hanging out and having good times talking and looking goofy. This morning however my wife said that one of the ladies she works with asked her if I would be offended by her costume. That’s right “offended” well let me just throw this out if you think that your costume might offend someone then either do it and say to hell with them or don’t wear it and be polite. To ask means that your conscious bothers you and you want to get guilt off your chest, which means you’re not strong or possibly heartless enough to just go around pissing people off.
But Chris what is the costume? I’m glad you asked. It’s really a harmless thing, they’re going as a priest and a pregnant nun. Some of you probably think that I’m going a little overboard so let me explain myself. If I went to a party wearing a yamaka but with horns coming out of it, people would be offended because you’re being anti-Semitic. If you wore blackface you would be looked at as a racist, but they sold this costume at the local store. It’s ok to rip the faith system of over 1 billion people. The fact that the majority of them say there ok with it is because a) they don’t take there spiritual journey seriously enough to get something out of it or b) they are uncomfortable standing up for what they believe in, so they don’t want to come off as un-cool. Well I’m already un-cool so I don’t give a shit about that and while my faith journey is all over the place I do take it seriously so I want to say something about the whole thing.
Forget the Catholic part, forget the fact that some priests are assholes, and forget the fact that some nuns are bitches. You should even forget the fact that in our society the idea of celibacy seems odd and unfulfilling because we have the god giving right to sleep with whomever we feel like. By wearing this costume you are absolutely pissing on the efforts of many people most of whom are good natured people, who are trying to adhere to something bigger than them. You are also pissing on a hell of a lot of people that stand by these men and women because they are living testimonies that it is possible to give yourself to something hopeful, that a human being doesn’t have to give in to there baser instincts all the time (they have a time and place for some of us but we usually screw that up but that’s a blog for a later time). I know there are priests that chase tail on the side and I know there are some priest and nuns who have done bad things but that has more to do with human weakness than divine aspiration. And if the people wearing this costume which makes fun of someone’s human weakness had to watch someone parade around in a costume showing off their own weakness I bet they’d think twice about wearing this damn costume.
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